Hey babes!
Here's wishing you a happy new year. Sorry it's coming late sha!
Was going through a write up and I stumbled upon this. Thought to share with you...
Please read, learn and stop being "chewing gum" girls!
A Letter to babes...
1.
Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady… So instead of
sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a
career that would take you out of the house wife category…
2.
Never let the sweet talks of MOST guys deceive you, sometimes all they
just want is to have easy access between your legs and run off
thereafter.
3. Remove the mentality from your mind that guys
will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day,
the less toasters you will have.
4. Playing ‘too’ hard to get
is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts
forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single
ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE (Husband).
5. Never
extort things from a guy you don’t love, guys always have ways of paying
a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total ‘PAID’ STRANGERS….BE
CAREFUL.
6. Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex.
A man will also return to his wife who sex starves him for years once
he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.
7. If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY
from him, don’t complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has
seen you have nothing else to offer…
8. Don’t be fooled when
Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that
same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with.
9. A guy always taking you to the SILVER-BIRD, FAST FOOD (pizza in or
galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTER/NATIONAL THEATRE is no
sign that he loves you, if he doesn’t care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE
TOGETHER then you are just his ‘SOCIAL MATE’ and nothing else….
10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook,
clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his
“executive house help”.
11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.
12. Don’t always change the tv station from NTV to CHANNEL O, MTV and
Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can
help out.
13. If the only places he doesn’t frown when you
enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren’t welcome (only
being used).
Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end
up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end… Always
with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive… The more
you widen your arms, the more he widens your legs.
A grown up
guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings
female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND
HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY… ADVISE YOURSELF…
FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN… It’s better to be
sitting in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husband’s fresh air
conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades
alongside a Burberry scarf….
JUST REMEMBER, THAT DATING A RICH MAN DOESN’T GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE… MONEY IS
NOT EVERYTHING….. MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST!
